Celebrating Survival

[ladyjanelly]

Anti-Privilege meme.

Yeah, I'm a little bitter.  Doing that meme made me realize how much it takes some people to feel they're in the privileged category.  

The meme is yes, a measure of privilege.

So here's the other side of the coin.  

I only had myself to base this thing on, and the few things I've heard from other people that I can think of at the moment.

Feel free to steal it and add to it.  Celebrate the strength it takes to survive.

(Bold if it's true)

 

 

I knew nobody but me would pay for my college

I’ve known the joy of a welfare Christmas

Someone besides my parents were the main providers of most non-necessary items

I thought Santa Claus hated me (or I was real bad), based on the gifts you got

I didn’t have the normal climate control for where I lived (A/C in the south, Heat in the north)

I didn’t have cable TV

I saw at least one of my parents use drugs

I saw at least one of my parents buy or sell drugs

My parents used food stamps to put food on the table

I remember living for more than a week without a necessary utility (gas, water, power)

My family was evicted or foreclosed on

My home suffered from a vermin infestation

I ate Lunch at school because it was free

I ate breakfast in the school lunch room, because it was free

 I was the oldest, and all my clothing was kept for younger siblings
I was not the oldest, and all my clothing was used

 

EDIT:

I knew nobody but me COULD pay for my college
I'm the first woman in 3 generations to not be pregnant by age 18.

Comments

[elmathelas.livejournal.com]

The worst kind of poverty that I have to deal with as a nurse is people who can't get food stamps because they make too much money but don't have enough money to keep the heat on and buy food too.

I knew what the intent was on your meme-- which is a good one, by the way-- but the thing is that people can manipulate the answers without technically lying, if they've got a mind to.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, memes are supposed to be innocent fun, for the most part, and the privlidge meme leaving the classroom and heading for the internets didn't seem like such a hot idea.

[ladyjanelly.livejournal.com]

We never had to make that choice, partly because my mom planted a 50'X100' garden 3 times a year, and because we were in florida, and a year's worth of gas was like $150. We never had A/C at home until right before I moved out at 16.

The pot farm hidden in a secret room in the chicken coop helped ends meet a lot too. I remember when I was about 11. My real dad came to the house and bought drugs from my step-dad and barely nodded to me.

Memes are supposed to be innocent fun, and I think I didn't realize this one wasn't for me until I was already riled up.