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[ladyjanelly]

My dad's wife died last week. I can't say I liked her too much, but she did try, the last time I was down in Florida.

My dad's a mess. I'm almost thinking about dropping my classes this semester and going to see him.

We've been playing phone tag since the event but he keeps calling the minute I put my phone down or turn it off for classes and leaving messages where it sounds like he's crying and when I call back (like 7 minutes later this time) it goes to voice mail.

I really worry about him drinking. Or worse. Or suicide.

Jesus.

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[pi]

That sucks. I wish the best that can be for you and your family. I'll hold you in the light. My condolances.

[ladyjanelly.livejournal.com]

Thanks. I just--I wish her remission had lasted long enough for him to divorce her like 5 yrs ago. They weren't happy but he was all she had and he didn't know how to walk. And now he feels all guilty for not loving her and stuff and for letting her distract him from his own kids.

[pi]

Oh, that is a really sucky situation. I'm quite sorry, for you as well as for him. I'm not sure I'd have any good advice for you, but I wish you all the best in figuring this out and finding a way to move on safely together as a family.