I can't imagine who I'd be without my grandparents. Seriously. I always had them to catch me when my mom and whatever man she was dating/married to at the time couldn't. They paid for summer camp and operations and clothes for school.
The best thing that ever happened to me was moving in with my grandparents. The best thing that ever happened to my sisters was when my mom and them moved next to my grandparents.
I agree with the priviledge thing. Now that I'm in a fairly successful situation (My husband has a good job, we own our house (thanks to a perfect-timing sale of my old house in florida that I only was buying because it was cheeper to pay a farm home loan than pay rent) I have time and money to go to school), it's scary. I have this recurring terror that I'm gonna finish my 2 yr degree and it won't get me a good job and I'll have wasted all this money and time. My husband, who came up a little better than me is like "so what? You'll go back and get something else if you want to." and even his trust in me is terrifying.
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The best thing that ever happened to me was moving in with my grandparents. The best thing that ever happened to my sisters was when my mom and them moved next to my grandparents.
I agree with the priviledge thing. Now that I'm in a fairly successful situation (My husband has a good job, we own our house (thanks to a perfect-timing sale of my old house in florida that I only was buying because it was cheeper to pay a farm home loan than pay rent) I have time and money to go to school), it's scary. I have this recurring terror that I'm gonna finish my 2 yr degree and it won't get me a good job and I'll have wasted all this money and time. My husband, who came up a little better than me is like "so what? You'll go back and get something else if you want to." and even his trust in me is terrifying.
I need to go call my grandparents.